Thursday, December 23, 2010

Merry Christmas!




Yay! It’s that time of the year again.
No need for “please Christmas don’t delay” cos it’s here already :)
I look around the whole place, everywhere is decorated; shops, streets, homes…. everybody, just conforming to the season.
I love Christmas because it brings the year to a wrap and most especially because it’s the season of love. It’s the time when I’m reminded the most of how great love is.

Reach out to somebody this season, try to be the reason for the smile on their face, show somebody some love. It might not be anything very grand but remember that one great attribute of love is that it portrays giving.  There is no love without “giving” and giving here doesn’t necessarily refer to material things/substance…. When you love someone, you give them your heart, your trust, devotion…. But don’t forget that you must give something for it to be described as love.

When you’re all dressed up, rushing out to celebrate this season, don’t forget to put a smile on someone’s face, someone that may really be in need of that smile. Look around your neighbourhood, there’s always that certain someone.

In the spirit of love, here’s something for you :)
Love came down at Christmas by Jars of clay
It‘s always been my favourite version of this song.
Enjoy!!!





Have a lovely, merry Christmas!
See y’all in 2011!

Signing out……….



Wednesday, December 1, 2010

What are you grateful for?



Aww! I can't believe December is here already!
I woke up to a very lazy start today.
Thank God I had a day off from my clinical practice today, at least I could spend some more time on my bed. Just laying there staring into the ceilings, thinking of all the things I have to do once I can get my butts off the bed :)
And then I heard my message tone, someone sent me a message. I checked, I had 3 other unread messages already. Too many messages for one morning!

I went ahead to check the first one, it was a 'happy new month' wish. Aww that was it! I didn't realise December was here already. Gosh how did I let that skip my mind?! I quickly whispered a prayer to God.
I looked out of my window, the whole place was covered up with snow. Very beautiful scenery, amazing beauty by God (even though I was happy that I didn't have to step out early today)

Later on, my sister called. It wasn't just the usual calls. She had some amazing news she wanted to share with me. She just heard news about the release of her final results from school. She's been waiting for this for so long but it has just been unavoidably delayed. It was like everything had come to a stand still for her and she was just constantly depressed everytime she thought about it. She kept hoping month after month, until I and my mum asked her to stop hoping and just settle her mind for next year. At least next year was far enough for everything to be sorted out so she won't be more dissapointed than she already was.

That was indeed a great news. I was so happy! I thought about all the goodness I have enjoyed through out the year too.... my life, good friends, family....
I knew I had to give God a proper "Thank you".

I want to admonish you to take some time out to reminisce and be thankful for 2010 too. What are you grateful for? Think about your life, all the achievements, all the troubles that never came your way.
And if you think that maybe you do not have a good reason to be; maybe because you still have a lot that you want to achieve in 2010 and the year is already coming to an end, then maybe all you need is just a lil bit of hope. You still have 30 more days and it could still happen. Take my sister's case as an example.

But if you think of the fact that we are still walking on the same earth that has swallowed up a lot of people, then maybe you'd have enough reason to be thankful. Think about all the times you picked up a paper to read about some tragedy that you never experienced. If you'd just think a lil bit, just a lil bit, I'm sure you'd have several reasons to be grateful.

Happy December!

Monday, November 22, 2010

Tough decision…. but very worthwhile contd....






For this post, I feel like I’m just being pushed by the “don’t start what you can’t finish” saying. Anyway, that’s it, I read my previous post, and I felt like there had to be some sort of a continuation, especially for drinking. You know most times they always go together, like a perfect combination, just like bread and butter :)
Anyway, I had the perfect experience to make me want to write about drinking too.

Still during my clinical practice, we had this patient, a tourist that was rushed  to the intensive care unit of the hospital. He collapsed in a club the previous night from having way too much alcohol. (Yea feels like I had a great experience with my clinical practice this year, huh? I think so too, cos you’d be so surprised if I'd  start narrating some of my many experiences.)
Firstly, we needed to get the necessary information about him, so my coordinator said as she was trying to read up his report “I heard you had way too much yesterday”.
 Deep inside me, I knew she was trying to be sarcastic and I was praying that I don’t laugh out cos she was already talking amidst very mischevious smiles. The man immediately interjected, “No not just yesterday, but for 10days straight”. Omg poor guy! something must have prompted this, I thought.  I immediately asked  "why?" expecting to hear some sad story, only for him to smile and say, “Nothing, I’m an alcoholist”.  Whatever that meant!
 Apparently he was trying to make us understand that he was an alcoholic! Seriously, is that supposed to be an achievement?  You are in the ICU because of excess drinking and you dare try to be proud of it?  I don’t know if that was supposed to come off as “cool” but sorry, I just couldn’t see it as that, especially not when he was gasping for breath and looking like one desperately in need of help.
The tricky thing about drinking is that it can tell people how responsible you can be. The good news is that you don’t have to completely stay off it, so you don’t have to worry about trying to quit, but at the same time, you shouldn’t allow yourself to get drunk, cos that’s just the thin line between rational and irrational or cool and not cool.
So the big question is “when is drinking alcoholism?"
If you are a complete abstainer, then you need not worry about this. But I’m not going to go ahead and say “that’s it, everyone, just stay off alcohol” because that would be being neither here nor there.
So lets try defining ALCOHOLISM!
The key word in this context is “excessive”.

Uusually, "you’ll hear when you start getting irrational as a result of the intake of alcohol, then you should understand that’s your limit", but some people can consume a whole lot of alcohol without even feeling the effects.


But still, using the feeling to define the limits could be some great starting point.  So maybe I can say, if you drink, and start seeing stars, and 2 heads, and then threes, and then butterflies, and your head is spinning then that’s when you should stop.  Hahaha! I’m obviously kidding, seeing these would mean  you are already drunk innit? hahaha! You know I just had to make you laugh!
Anyway, let’s just say that you should try to define your limit, and stop at the point just before where you are supposed to feel tipsy.  I can’t say for sure cos I don’t know the feeling!. Did you just ask why? Ok I’ll tell you.
Why would I want to lose control of my senses even for one second? I can’t even imagine being irrational not even for a split second. What if in that split second I went ahead and did something rather stupid e.g set me ablaze? You laughed right? I’m laughing too cos its actually very funny, but you may not understand that you do subject yourself to this kind of risk and many more, every time you drink yourself to stupor. 

Ok back to excessive, whether you feel drunk or not, too much alcohol in the system is not good. It’s a risk factor for several health conditions. According to nutirtionists, a small amount of alcohol could also be rewarding. Alcohol could help to prevent cardiovascular diseases by lowering the LDL (low density lipo-protein) in the body while increasing HDL(high density lipo-protein).
Thus, some experts thought it wise to give some specific ranges for the limits
For men, its about 3-4 units per day
For women, its about 2-3 units per day 
 When it comes to alcohol, its recommended in units. A unit is about 8g or 10 millilitres. This varies a lot depending on the type of alcohol and the country, but maybe we can just say that 1 unit is roughly a glass of wine or a can of beer.
But remember, a higher intake will be more detrimental than beneficial.


Well, I don’t know if looking at it from the nutritional point of view was a good remedy still especially for the heavy drinkers, but one thing I do know is that, this would never be easy. Alcoholism is bad, and I don’t want to start highlighting all the dangers of alcoholism cos I suppose we would have heard about them already. 

Ending certain lifelong habits can be really demanding, it can be as difficult as walking on a tight rope. Nothing good comes easy, they say, but you’ll have to make a choice and that is where you’ll need to subscribe a lot on self restraint.

Goodluck!




Saturday, November 20, 2010

Fall Fragrances ♥

Van Cleef & Arpels Feerie

Bulgari Jasmin Noir
Lancome Magnifique




Antonio Banderas Blue Seduction for Women



Fergie’s come out with her first fragrance, Outspoken by Fergie from Avon. This floriental mixes tuberose, leather and berry for a scent as an unusual as its creator. Currently it comes only in one size, 1.7 oz eau de parfum spray.



 Gucci Guilty- it’s unlike any floriental fragrance you’ve ever smelled. The inspiration for the scent was the Barbra Streisand/Barry Gibb duet of the same name. The fragrance is at once sweet with lilacs, but has an underlying sexiness that comes from Amber. To add a little sparkle, there’s Mandarin and pink pepper. I know, I know, you’d never think of combining these disparate scents into one bottle; the result is a flirty sensual perfume. The Gucci Guilty eau de toilette spray comes in two sizes: 1.7 oz,2.5 oz and if you want, pick up the 6.7 oz body lotion, to layer or wear alone.


Victoria’s Secret Bombshell-broke the fragrance category barriers and created a new one! It’s a fruity floral aromatic. It starts off as a clean scent that’s a mix of Shangri-La peony from China, purple passionfruit from Brazil and vanilla orchid. It then settles down into a lush mix of floral and fruit notes with a hint of pine. The 1.7 oz eau de parfum spray can be combined with the 8.4 oz body lotion or the luminous body powder or the 8.4 oz body spray.


Jean Paul Gaultier Classique Extrait, 0.67 fl is a limited edition eau de parfum spray. It’s part of Gaultier’s Classique X collection. The bottle is sensuous: a black glass bottle of a female form with a giant pink x across the body. This is a rich luxurious fragrance. Redolent of Bulgarian rose, tuberose orange blossom that is combined with ambergris and vanilla. You might want to wear it at night, or on a date.


It seems that fall is all about adjusting to the weather. Perhaps that’s what Issey Miyake had in mind when he decided to release the limited edition L’Eau d’Issey Noir Absolu 1.6 oz eau de parfum spray . This is a floral with amber trail version of his original L’Eau d’ Issey. Citrus, spice and amber have been added to the floral mélange of lotus, jasmine and lily. It’s perfect for cold, snuggling weather. It can be found on fragrance counters.






Just in time for fall, Narciso Rodriguez has released a limited edition of Essence Musc Collection eau de parfum intense, 3.3 oz . It’s a play on his Essence fragrance, more intense and is a tribute to the scent of musk. While the central note is musk, it is surrounded by iris, warm wood, benzoin and floral rose. It's considered to be a floral with woody notes.


                               

          RALPH LAUREN NOTORIOUS 



                                                    

                                               

           CALVIN KLEIN SECRET OBSESSION







TOCCA STELLA







                                                   

AVON BOND GIRL 007






          




      ESTEE LAUDER SENSUOUS


      


     CHRISTINA AGUILERA INSPIRE

















Something 'bout love- David Archuleta

Every night it’s all the same
You’re frozen by the phone
You wait, something’s changed
You blame yourself every day
You’d do it again
Every night

There’s something ’bout love
That breaks your heart
Whoa oh oh oh
It sets you free

There’s something ’bout love
That tears you up
Whoa oh oh oh
You still believe
When the world falls down like the rain
It’ll bring you to your knees
There’s something ’bout love that breaks your heart
Whoa oh oh oh…
But don’t give up
There’s something ’bout love

When you were young
Scared of the night
Waiting for love to come along
And make it right
Your day will come, the past is gone
So take your time
And live and let live

There’s something ’bout love
That breaks your heart
Whoa oh oh oh
It sets you free

There’s something ’bout love
That tears you up
Whoa oh oh oh
You still believe
When the world falls down like the rain
It’ll bring you to your knees
There’s something ’bout love that breaks your heart

Whoa oh oh oh…
But don’t give up
There’s something ’bout love

Don’t fight
Don’t hide
Those stars in your eyes 
Let em’ shine tonight
Let em’ shine tonight

Hang on
Hang in
For the ride of your life
It’s gonna be alright
Hold on tight

There’s something ’bout love
That breaks your heart
Whoa oh oh oh

There’s something ’bout love
That breaks your heart
Whoa oh oh oh
It sets you free

There’s something ’bout love
That tears you up
Whoa oh oh oh
You still believe
When the world falls down like the rain
It’ll bring you to your knees
There’s something ’bout love that breaks your heart
Whoa oh oh oh…
But don’t give up
There’s something ’bout love

Whoa oh oh oh..
Set’s you free
There’s something bout love
That tears you up
Whoa oh oh oh
You still believe
When the world falls down like the rain

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

:-)

If he misses u,he'll call u...don't go wondering if he saw ur missed call or not!
I f he wants to see u he'll make plans with u... don't go chasing after him!
If he loves u he'll make sure you know....don't go digging in his deep inside!
If he believes u r the one, he'll find u & will never let u go!! 
Stop analyzing his behavior, stop doubting ur intentions & don't ring twice, u r a wonderful lady & at the end of the day its his loss!!
Send this to all gorgeous ladies you know and the stupid men too. :)

Monday, November 15, 2010

New Attractions

  • Due Date
  • Social Networking
  • Paranormal Activities 2
  • Skyline
  • Eat, Pray, Love
  • Jackass

Never Afraid- Eminem

I'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road


Yeah, It's been a ride...
I guess I had to go to that place to get to this one
Now some of you might still be in that place
If you're trying to get out, just follow me
I'll get you there


You can try and read my lyrics off of this paper before I lay 'em
But you won't take this thing out these words before I say 'em
Cause ain't no way I'm let you stop me from causing mayhem
When I say 'em or do something I do it, I don't give a damn
What you think, I'm doing this for me, so fuck the world
Feed it beans, it's gassed up, if a thing's stopping me
I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony
No if ands or buts don't try to ask him why or how can he
From Infinite down to the last Relapse album he's still shit'n
Whether he's on salary, paid hourly
Until he bows out or he shit's his bowels out of him
Whichever comes first, for better or worse
He's married to the game, like a fuck you for christmas
His gift is a curse, forget the earth he's got the urge
To pull his dick from the dirt and fuck the universe


I'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

Ok quit playin' with the scissors and shit, and cut the crap
I shouldn't have to rhyme these words in the rhythm for you to know it's a rap
You said you was king, you lied through your teeth
For that fuck your feelings, instead of getting crowned you're getting capped
And to the fans, I'll never let you down again, I'm back
I promise to never go back on that promise, in fact
Let's be honest, that last Relapse CD was "ehhhh"
Perhaps I ran them accents into the ground

Relax, I ain't going back to that now
All I'm tryna say is get back, click-clack BLAOW
Cause I ain't playin' around
There's a game called circle and I don't know how
I'm way too up to back down
But I think I'm still tryna figure this crap out
Thought I had it mapped out but I guess I didn't
This fucking black cloud still follow's me around
But it's time to exercise these demons
These motherfuckers are doing jumping jacks now!


I'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road


And I just can't keep living this way
So starting today, I'm breaking out of this cage
I'm standing up, Imma face my demons
I'm manning up, Imma hold my ground
I've had enough, now I'm so fed up
Time to put my life back together right now


It was my decision to get clean, I did it for me
Admittedly I probably did it subliminally for you
So I could come back a brand new me, you helped see me through
And don't even realise what you did, believe me you
I been through the ringer, but they can do little to the middle finger
I think I got a tear in my eye, I feel like the king of
My world, haters can make like bees with no stingers, and drop dead
No more beef flingers, no more drama from now on, I promise
To focus soley on handling my responsibility's as a father
So I solemnly swear to always treat this roof like my daughters and raise it
You couldn't lift a single shingle on it
Cause the way I feel, I'm strong enough to go to the club
Or the corner pub and lift the whole liquor counter up
Cause I'm raising the bar, I shoot for the moon
But I'm too busy gazing at stars, I feel amazing and


I'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road